Non-negotiables

So... this is a must post for two beautiful friends of mine... we had great conversation this afternoon...

I was sharing with them that I have a "special order."

Now... you may ask... what's a "special order."

WELL... since you asked... this is a special order of what I want in a man...

I have a list of things I want in my future husband.

I have a list, which at the top includes things in italics... these are my non-negotiable items...

ABSOLUTES

If a man doesn't meet these non-negotiable criteria... he is NOT the one!

Then I have my... added bonuses... items I would like, but that aren't dealbreakers in and of themselves...

This list has pretty much remained unchanged since I wrote it about 3 years ago.

So I ask... are you aware of the non-negotiables in your mind?

It's good to know those so you don't waste your time or emotions on the ones you coulda known wasn't the right one from the get go.

NON NEGOTIABLE

While I am on the subject of relationships... LOL

I don't think I got what I was looking for in my new haircut... one guy told me it made me look older... uggg... SO NOT what I was goin for... may not be in another relationship for a while... good thing my hair grows fast! ;-)

Anywho... as promised, here is a pic... not a good pic, and you really can't see the haircut in this pic, but it is a pic nonetheless.... a better one to come soon :-)

Goodnight and God Bless!!!